There have been many occasions where I have noticed whenever the Aries man or woman is brought up, that they are considered the most hated sign in dating. Normally, when I hear someone explaining a bad relationship, it is no surprise that the dater is complaining about an Aries man or woman. Don’t get me wrong the Aries sign has great qualities! Some of those things would be the laughter you can get sometimes from there childlike behavior. I have noticed when dating an Aries that when buying gifts or when it comes to fashion, you really don’t have to do much or expect a great outfit. This sign seems more relaxed and is always up for a good time. Another great thing is that they can be very independent. So if you ever want to get some time for yourself, this sign is alright with that idea of hanging out with friends or watching television in a spare room.
The Aries sign loves an adventure and is willing to try anything once, and when they are trying to get a date for the first time, the chase ends once you have been with them for a month. I guess you can say that when the chase is on it’s on! However, there were some bad things that many just could not deal with when it comes to this sign. Aries tends to have a problem with being wrong, someone can point out each detail and have proof of what they have done and they still will not admit they were wrong. Aries love to have the attention and they want to seem to be important. This explains why most of the time they lie about being someone important for no reason. Often times you will hear an Aries talk more than anyone else in a conversation. The thing is when they are talking the conversation is all about them!
I find that daters seem to get tired of the sound of their voice by the third hour. Aries call themselves leaders but in reality they are very lazy, rude, and boring at times. If you are looking to be in a relationship with an Aries, you are looking to be in a made up fairy tale movie that is all based on lies. An Aries finds it hard to live life without lying about the smallest things. They so badly want to be important that they enjoy confrontation so that they can feel normal. Might I add, never think that you will win a battle with this sign because you won’t. When it comes to arguments they are very rude, messy and childlike. They will aim to hurt you in the worst way with words and then decided after they are done and there is no need to discuss anything else.
One of the other facts that I have learned is that, Aries men and women are very insecure and jealous. Aries has a problem with anyone but them getting attention. If someone compliments an Aries they will talk about it all night long because they are so happy someone told them what they wanted to hear. Just heads up if you are dating this sign, Aries are not modest or humble people. They feel like everything is owed to them in some way; If another man or woman calls their spouse beautiful or handsome, they are instantly ready to fight; Aries feel that no one can look, touch, or start conversation in just being nice to their spouse. Everyone is a pervert when it comes to an Aries man or woman.
When it comes to the job sector, Aries are lazy and they do not care to do anything that requires longevity. Aries are the types that will complain about everything and expect to get paid to be a boss the first few weeks on the job. They are horrible cleaners, selfish, and do not believe in group effort. They are extremely bad with finances and often times if someone tells them they need to do better they get angry and want to fight. I guess you can say they are stubborn; in addition they would be the ones who would create a fake account online waiting to catch someone in the wrong. What is so sad that being that they are looking to catch someone in the wrong, in reality majority of the time they are the ones cheating on their spouse.
When dealing with an Aries, you will hear constant complaining no matter what. It could be a great day, nice atmosphere, great music, and still the Aries with their grumpiness will find something wrong. They are terrible gift givers; the Aries man or woman will spend no more than five bucks on you, but expect a million dollar gift in return. When an Aries buys gifts you will get things like a card made from the heart, a bowl from dollar tree, or a toy you always wanted as a kid. When they try to dress it’s usually a fail with this sign. Aries can swear they are looking good but when it comes down to it they always seem tacky.
There going out where will be done all wrong, you can catch them in a great shirt but then from waist down it’s like a circus. If you are thinking of dating an Aries these are things to consider and if that’s what you like! Go for it! They do have some good things about them;
Jaquetta Stevens PhD.