Many men and women feel that they have found the right man or woman. However within two months of the relationship, they realize that they have made a terrible mistake. I personally feel that these women and men had some idea of what was going on, but refused to just be real with themselves of the problem. Men and women have been played by some of the most gullible individuals; in addition, these individuals feel that they cannot trust any man or woman who may want to have a committed relationship. It’s clear that one should be responsible enough to see their wrong in a situation, but in some cases that is hard for most to do. I think that it should be something that is looked into carefully when finding the right man or woman.
No one is perfect, but still we should look for the types that add some value to our lives and not just a bunch of games. I hear women say all the time... Oh he met me in the club, he just got out of a relationship, he was traveling when I met him; In all of these cases, it all seems wrong of how they met these men and started an ongoing relationship so quickly. I find that it takes time to learn a man or woman; most importantly, we can’t be so quick to trust the kinds that swear that they are in love with you in a few days. There is definitely something wrong with this picture and yes you should be worried. I find this is the first sign that you are on the list with the many that has been played. “Should you be upset? My response would be no;”don’t hate the playa hate that you believed their bulls&^%.
Jaquetta Stevens PhD.